How exactly do I improve the relations with the lords that are under me? If I grant one of them a fief, I get +10 repuation with them, but -3 for all of my other lords. Seeing as how I have 8 lords at the moment, that's basically a +10 reputation at the cost of a total -21 reputation. I'm not winning any friends that way. I apparently can't do quests for them (which makes sense seeing as how I'm their king I suppose).
I read somewhere that hosting feats improves relations but it's not working. Whenever I host a feast, even though I'm loaded with supplies in the larder, it only lasts less than half a day, I get somewhere around 80-90 renown, and that's it. And for some reason I only lose like 1 unit of each good that's being used for the feast. Is this normal? How can I get on better terms with my vassals?
I read somewhere that hosting feats improves relations but it's not working. Whenever I host a feast, even though I'm loaded with supplies in the larder, it only lasts less than half a day, I get somewhere around 80-90 renown, and that's it. And for some reason I only lose like 1 unit of each good that's being used for the feast. Is this normal? How can I get on better terms with my vassals?
