Impossible to Recruit Lords in 1.3

[barcibus]

After succeeding in the conversation checks to recruit a lord from another faction, in 1.3 I can offer every denar I have (2+ million) and every single item in my inventory (comprised of a substantial number of items including smithed overpriced weapons + horse armada + food stocks) and the offer button never becomes tappable. It used to be quite easy, once the conversation check was passed, but now it seems impossible. Anyone else seeing this?

 

[Bob Gnarly]

You have to recruit lords that are weakened. So lords that have lost land or part of a losing faction.

Trying to recruit a powerful lord will of course cost you a fortune, but I'm able to recruit weak lords usually for nothing.