If they were a woman, I'd have an affair with them. They'd probably be too good for me, anyways, but I'd definitely give them my best pick up line and buy them a drink.
According to all the spam emails i get, the best way to get confidence is to "get a decent size in your pants" or "enlarge your little friend". Apparently this makes women beg YOU for attention, and makes the need for personality optional. This is good news for many game playing internet geeks