i have a problem..

[cocoman213]

I know this sounds silly, but I cant find my wife.. I looked at all my feifs and shes not there. where can she be?

 

[LiasTheBeast]

she is maybe cheating on you

 

[Zabarman]

she is maybe cheating on you

If so kill her and put here head on a stake out side of your castle.

 

[Moss]

Try:
A) Looking at her entry in the list of NPC's.
B) Asking one of your factions lords about her location.