Both of us have been here since the early Warband days and understand that, but being silent over topics that have been brought since early beta is not a good call. Specially when people who has been trying to help are investing hours and hours, providing clips and explanations to every single suggestion to not know if developers even agree on something so fundamental. Not to mention that we've been called out for 'lack of adaptation' more than once.
Noone asked anyone to compromise with anything strict RIGHT NOW though, I would happily stop playing the game seriously or to win in the future, and drop my hopes entirely if they confirmed that combat, balance and mechanics are completly fine and do not plan on working on them.
Communicating basic intentions is essential, noone cares if cavalry or archer mechanics get worked now or in 2 months, but want it to be worked on (HARD and with an open mentality, cooperating with feedback, same way we've been open and fully-adapting towards a new game), same with the constant 7 damage good looking hits. If someone disagrees on core/basic combat, mechanics and balance topics, they just need to check the feedback, specially that kind which followed each suggestion by an explanation and clips showing 'the flaw'.