I remember reading that ı could disable companion complaining because they all keep on leaving. I looked at mod options but couldn't find it. does anybody a way of disabling them.
That's how to do it manually. Just open the scripts.txt file and hit ctrl+f to search then paste: 2133 2 144115188075856758 0
change the last zero to a 1 and you're done. Even though this is an very old edit feature I can verify that it works with the latest Brytenwalda/Warband editions. I always change this feature manually.
I'm not totally sure, just 99% sure that you need to start a new game after making this edit otherwise it won't work.
Other than that there is a thread on building stable parties, so you can have up to 16 companions without anyone leaving. Here
http://forums.taleworlds.com/index.php/topic,183844.msg4404345.html#msg4404345