I’m a queen of my own faction in Mount and Blade Warband, and I get a border incident message that local notables from a village claimed by the Rhodoks have been mistreated by overlords from my faction. I know if I don’t react, I’ll lose face and relationship points with all my vassal lords. Question is, how do I react to this to avoid losing face? If I declare war on Rhodoks through my minister, it would be considered unprovoked (how ironic, since a border incident is grounds for war isn’t it?) and I lose relationship points. If I incite war by attacking their caravans, same thing. If I do nothing, same thing, and I lose face. So is there a proper way to address this border incident? I imagine that anything I do will result in some unfortunate side affect, so I suppose it’s a matter of picking the best option to deal with this before I lose face, right to rule, relationship points, and look like a bad ruler lol. Thanks!