Frustrating relations. Help pls!

[DaniXskillZ]

I am in no faction and it's just me and my caravans. I have previously abandoned 2 kingdoms and i have negative relations with most of the vassals in the two kingdoms because of that. When i try to establish a kingdom they keep attacking me because of that. Is there any passive or direct way of increasing relations with them.
And i can't do missions for them cause i have -10 relations and i don't won't to donate all my money to them to get +2 relations

 

[Medivhtratos]

Fight release, fight, release

 

[Pensaci]

Fight-win-release is optimal way rn.
Try be a merc for the faction they are at war with

 

[Midnitewolf]

Fight release, fight, release

Fight-win-release is optimal way rn.
Try be a merc for the faction they are at war with

Yep. The catch and release policy is the absolute best way to earn faction with enemy lords. It is so good, all your enemies will end up your best friends while your friends usually end up neutral with you at best.

 

[Death2Tyrants]

Fight-win-release is optimal way rn.
Try be a merc for the faction they are at war with

Doesn't work when you have several parties running around capturing lords

 

[MakinTorf]

talk with them and give them some gifts. much gold or some self made javlins

 

[veronicaaltoids]

I am in no faction and it's just me and my caravans. I have previously abandoned 2 kingdoms and i have negative relations with most of the vassals in the two kingdoms because of that. When i try to establish a kingdom they keep attacking me because of that. Is there any passive or direct way of increasing relations with them.
And i can't do missions for them cause i have -10 relations and i don't won't to donate all my money to them to get +2 relations

why you abandon 2 kingdoms? if you are a hired sword, and you directly talk to the emperor to leave kingdoms, you won't have any punishment in relationship, if you just click "leave kingdom", you will have punishment

just stick with one kingdom and keep trying to kill your emperor on purpose
try every chance to kill him in battle, if you get lucky , he/she die, kingdom votes, you are new emperor
congratulations

 

[MakinTorf]

if you are a hired sword, and you directly talk to the emperor to leave kingdoms, you won't have any punishment in relationship, if you just click "leave kingdom", you will have punishment

ohhh.... didnt know that. nice to know.