Yeah me too, out of respect I never say anything bad to the youtubers who act all proud when "cheating" with 3rd person.
For me 3rd person is to make screenshots....
If i want an arcade slasher i just play Dynasty Warriors or something like that.
But Bannerlord for me is not a simulation but it is half way between these two extremes so I only play first person because the second my guy becomes a sort of superhero or semi-God , the game lose all its interest to me.
This is also why I didnt try multiplayer yet and probably never will if servers are not locked to 1st person cause i refuse to play against someone who cheats with 3rd person and dont see the point of playing with the external view.. robs you of all the immersion and feeling of vulnerability and take out most of the challenge in single player especially if you play max difficulty with a general on foot ( limited view of the battlefield).
All weapons ( ranged included ) and situations are perfectly functional in 1st person... so i dont understand the point that 3rd person is important for multiplayer.
For me 3rd person in multiplayer is precisely what locks me out of it.