Well, I want ever realm to be up, the hard core rpers just complain when they are on a war server or general pw server.
Some people enjoy both, and go back in forth depending on the mood they are in.
NA is split like that.
EU is more like HCRP in general, NA General is more like a big giant war, than you have the small medium sized bunch that just wants to type all day and make role play scenarios which is hard / nearly impossible on a general NA server.
Last time Avalon was up, it shared NA with nexus HCRP in perfect harmony. Anyway I hope things get sorted out.