How? I've tried everything, by getting in contact with them via a third person (Jufasto in this case), I tried direct communication with HM in the Bannerlord Clan Leader group, since I happen to not have Abdilay Khan directly on my list and what is happening? He shows no remorse for his behavior and just proceeds to ridicule those who call him out on it because no sanctions are getting imposed.Whole issue is big bruh moment can’t you talk properly to fix this issue you all grown ups talk in vc or do something to solve it stop complaining no offense...
Hard to choose right side...
I don't want to deal with stuff like this in my free time, this person will probably not change and some people are not perfect. If you can't adhere to basic rules in your free time when you're in a group or social events, they will ban you from attending. I don't see any difference here, since just removing this person from the Duel Server would simply solve the problem. Talking is not working. I've tried.
Same case. Just ban him and be done with it. This is stuff you don't want to deal with in your free time. On a custom servers people would just not bother, contact an admin, he would not bother as welll and just swing the ban hammer. You can appeal to the ban and show that you improved your behavior by being on probation after this but if no sanction is imposed the rules are pointless.I tried many times to engage with Sven in a friendly way to see if something was bothering him. He didn't say a word and attacked non stop on cavalry for hours, day after day. He got banned for a week, came back and continued stating "he just doesnt GAF".
Only so much you can do.
I told people in my clan that if someone is caught red handed doing stuff like this, he'd be in trouble in the clan as well not because I am a meanie and enjoy my power trip when I sanction this behavior but because the reputation of the entire group is at risk. Wearing a tag is representation and if people can't adhere to basic rules then I don't really think I should tolerate this and take action.