Dilemma: Going away when I don't want to
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butscrew 说:
You are. It's a contraction.
It is.
arbites_augmented
Count
It is?
fisheye 说:
Yeah, yeah. Massive pessimism, blah blah. If we break up, so be it, but I don't see that happening for a while.
Zaro 说:
Firstly I don't lack balls, I just happen to care about my girlfriend because she means more to me than the chance to get up to some horny teenage experimentation, secondly there are plenty of prettier, probably smarter, possibly more interesting girls in my school, never mind at uni, doesn't mean I'm interested in them, because they're not... her. If there's one thing I'm good at it's loyalty.
Mage246
Read: He wouldn't have a chance with any of those girls, so he's settling for what he can get. Which is apparently ugly, dumb, and uninteresting.
Togakure
Master Knight
Ah, the smell of fear. Unmistakable male fear. You must bravely destroy the source of your fear before it destroys you, before it damages the self-defining ego, that glass house of strength and confidence and self-esteem. You must train yourself again and again, taking trophies to assure yourself of dominance, and to remain a man in the eyes of other men. This is very important. Never give in, never surrender your heart to a woman. Do that and you are no longer in control. And if you are no longer in control, you are no longer a man. You are a slave.
arbites_augmented
Count
KILL IT
KILL IT WITH FIRE
KILL IT WITH FIRE
Mage246 说:
I honestly don't know if I could "get" them or not, but it's irrelevant. I don't want to. Looks are basically unimportant; I don't find myself attracted by... well... people. Dumb certainly isn't the case, and if she was uninteresting I wouldn't have been friends with her in the first place, never mind having a relationship. Just because others can find subjects of coversation faster, or play an instrument or something, doesn't make them more desirable partners in the long term.
So no, I'm not settling for her, if anything I count myself lucky I found her, and I hope we can make it last.
If you choose not to believe me... big deal?
Togakure 说:
You are a turtle.
fisheye 说:
You seem to be well informed.
vadermath 说:
I'll have to hold onto her until I'm financially independent, which looks to be another four or five years down the line, so I have no intentions, but I certainly wouldn't complain if I was told I'd be spending my life with her.
I don't see the point in starting a relationship which you'd want to end at some point later on. It's pointless!
butscrew 说:
Except the problem of fire.
Cleaning Agent 说:I'll have to hold onto her until I'm financially independent, which looks to be another four or five years down the line, so I have no intentions, but I certainly wouldn't complain if I was told I'd be spending my life with her.
But does your girlfriend have the same long-term ideas as you do?
vadermath 说:
Yeah, for now at least. We're both realists. We accept that we might not always feel the same way, or that circumstances might not lend themselves to being able to carry things on, but we plan to try and keep it going through university, which is already a pretty big sign of commitment.
