I would like you to know that I am running around in a shirt, with a short sword, hurting feelings. I am killing people with shields by waiting until they open their guard and stabbing them, then running around behind them and stabbing them, then kicking and stabbing htem. I and killing archers by ducking and weaving. When the next battle starts, I, naked, will take a polearm and bloody well murder someone by being faster and more skillful than they and understanding my engagement distances. After that I think I'll take a throwing axe and kill three armored people in melee for fun.
Stop complaining.
Learn how to play the game.
If there is something you don't understand ask for help.