Dating Thread, v. I

[Silver]

Why not?

 

[Cyborg Eastern European]

It probably involves Llandy.

 

[Selothi]

Nah, if it involved Llandy it would be kinky.

As it is it's probably far worse.

 

[Elisianthus]

Well; as I'm currently engaged in a massive argument mostly consisting of trying to get her to blame me not herself, I think I can safely say I've avoided needing to decide to turn her down or not.

 

[DameGreyWulf]

Wait, what's going on?

Also I would definitely like to know this bit about Bugmanina. Do tell.

 

[Elisianthus]

Well, remember how I said she'd likely decide to make up again? Well she decided to start a conversation as to WHY it happened; and long story short I' trying to get her to blame me instead of herself as she'll be happier that way.

 

[DameGreyWulf]

Getting blamed for what, though?
If you don't mind my prying. I'm just a little confused.

 

[Seff]

What bit about Bugman?

 

[DameGreyWulf]

Strap-ons.

 

[Elisianthus]

She's trying to say that it was her fault she ended it and that I was too good for her. The opposite of this is actually far closer to the truth.

In summary *Points to sig*

I played with fire.

 

[DameGreyWulf]

So... you think somehow it's your fault that she ended it and she's too good for you... when it's been established she was the one who ended it for lack of caring for you?

 

[Elisianthus]

It's a choice of her blaming herself or her blaming me. She's more likely to be happy in the end with option B.

 

[DameGreyWulf]

She won't be happy with lacking truth, and thinking she's done no wrong will bite her in the ass eventually, perhaps in future relationships where she tries the same thing and gets seriously hurt.

 

[bugman]

Well, remember how I said she'd likely decide to make up again? Well she decided to start a conversation as to WHY it happened; and long story short I' trying to get her to blame me instead of herself as she'll be happier that way.

Don't do that. Being the ***** is not the way to go.

She's trying to say that it was her fault she ended it and that I was too good for her. The opposite of this is actually far closer to the truth.

Then maybe it's an idea to forget about it? it sucks, I know. But whether she truly believes that or not, it sounds like it's over. Sorry dude.

Strap-ons.

Every guy needs mystery.

It's a choice of her blaming herself or her blaming me. She's more likely to be happy in the end with option B.

She's dumped you. Sod her feelings. Go with what you're happy with.

 

[Elisianthus]

She won't be happy with lacking truth, and thinking she's done no wrong will bite her in the ass eventually, perhaps in future relationships where she tries the same thing and gets seriously hurt.

Think of this as me giving her one final chance Dame; if she screws up again in future, I doubt I'll be able to find a way to blame myself for it.

Then maybe it's an idea to forget about it? it sucks, I know. But whether she truly believes that or not, it sounds like it's over. Sorry dude.

I have no trouble realising it's over. I'm merely trying to lessen the impact on her happiness.

She's dumped you. Sod her feelings. Go with what you're happy with.

Here's the issue: I still care - and making her happy would make me happy.

 

[Seff]

Strap-ons.

He's never used one, or touched one. That's it. I'm not sure that was a bit, but okay.

 

[DameGreyWulf]

Strap-ons.

He's never used one, or touched one. That's it. I'm not sure that was a bit, but okay.

You asked how would he know and Hyp said don't ask...

 

[Seff]

Oh. That's just Hyp being a *****.

 

[Silver]

Okay, I got some ammo.

I just got invited to a movie-night which my mega-crush the model™ will attend.

It also happens to be the same night I'm supposed to roleplay. Will I take the supernerdy way out? Have I grown to subconscious about myself, and my recent weight-gain and very old clothing? Will my obsessive streak take over again? Eh, whatever. Just make fun of me, or whatever.

 

[Seff]

Lol ur fat.

But yeah, it's better to get out there and e shot down than never going out there. If nothing else you can pick up some fashion tips from the smartsy fartsy people.