Maximus183
Knight
Hell they can do whatever they want, at which age they want as long as it doesn't haunt them for life. This whole **** 'bout it not being "appropriate" is just silly
Dating Age.
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Knight
Silver
Baron
I'd say whenever a person is ready for it, no matter if that's when they're 7, or if that's when they're 45. I don't believe in telling people what to do, just tell them the risks, what to expect, etc, and let them decide for themselves. If they **** up, after having all the information available to them, then they're not fit for it anyway, and just telling them they can't won't change that.
Vraid
Knight
I reckon you should start dating a soon as you want. Personally, my first "girlfriend" was in year four, although, being kids at the time, we didn't really do anything compared to my current girlfriend. In my opinion, the more time you spend with women, be they girlfriend or not, the more comfortable and confident you'll be around them when your balls drop.
By women, I mean human females relative to your age, of course.
By women, I mean human females relative to your age, of course.
Sound Chaser
Grandmaster Knight
Zaro 说:
That's exactly how it should be! Things are better when they don't have names.
I personally think that determining a dating age is not the right way to approach the subject in the first place. In a good parent and child relationship one can talk about things and set limits without creating unnecessary taboos. If you deny dating from a ten-year-old, you shouldn't expect him/her to talk to you about his future datings. He/she will instead date secretly, and without your wise advice do stupid things which you'll probably hear from your child's teacher if anyone. If my mother had prevented my dating when I was ten, I would sure have been mad at her and respect between us would've crumbled.
This is why it's best that you let your kid date however young he/she might be. Just set some reasonable limits such as:"don't touch, or let your friend touch you, so that it feels uncomfortable." If they both want to kiss, I don't see anything bad in it as long as they like it themselves and don't do it to show off in front of friends, or think that it has got to do with sex.
You shouldn't suffocate a child's emotions.
ash12181987
Squire
You've never met someone from the Church of ChristLordOfShadows 说:
leprechaun
Marquis
Sod that, he's obviously never met the right Catholics!ash12181987 说:
The Shadow
Recruit
Hmmm.... Again. Lot's of people call themselves Catholic, yet do lots of non Catholic actions.
For instance, having sex outside of marriage is a sin according to the Catholic Church. If you are not a Catholic though, then what is there to worry about. So there is no sex guilt, per se, it's because it's against our religion.
As for the dating:
There is no reason not to have friends of the opposite sex, in fact, I have been in circles where when a boy talks to a girl, everyone flips out.
That, I do not encourage, as it tends to be...an easy way to cause problems. Actually dating depends on when a person is mature and morally and financially responsible. If you are going to call someone your girlfriend, that means that you are thinking of spending the rest of your life with them. If you have no intention of doing that, or are to young to consider that, then it's probably not a good time to start, because you will make more enemies then friends. If, however, you feel you are ready, be you 15 or 20, then by all means do what you want.
However, I don't think there should be any kind of law prohibiting dating age...
Conclusion: When a person is mature enough.
For instance, having sex outside of marriage is a sin according to the Catholic Church. If you are not a Catholic though, then what is there to worry about. So there is no sex guilt, per se, it's because it's against our religion.
As for the dating:
There is no reason not to have friends of the opposite sex, in fact, I have been in circles where when a boy talks to a girl, everyone flips out.
That, I do not encourage, as it tends to be...an easy way to cause problems. Actually dating depends on when a person is mature and morally and financially responsible. If you are going to call someone your girlfriend, that means that you are thinking of spending the rest of your life with them. If you have no intention of doing that, or are to young to consider that, then it's probably not a good time to start, because you will make more enemies then friends. If, however, you feel you are ready, be you 15 or 20, then by all means do what you want.
However, I don't think there should be any kind of law prohibiting dating age...
Conclusion: When a person is mature enough.
The Shadow
Recruit
I don't believe I said that, specifically.
If that's when you deem yourself mature enough then yes.
If that's when you deem yourself mature enough then yes.
Revilo
Grandmaster Knight
COGlory 说:
I think he means this.
I certainly wouldn't want to even think about possibly considering maybe spending the rest of my life with someone at this age, and yet I still have had and am going to have girlfriends. Generally though, I agree with the 'when they're mature enough' statement, although I do think anything under about 13 is a bit strange as they can't possibly know all the implications.
Angaku 说:
Whaaaat?
Who cares. As long as kids aren't spewing out kids, let them kiss and hold hands. It's part of growing up and learning. The whole point of childhood is about learning how to become an adult.
Pharaoh Llandy 说:
And the whole point of adulthood is learning to be a child again. And becoming incontinent.
No, the whole point of adulthood is learning how to make others (preferably children) do your bidding. Once you're grown up you don't get to be young again.
Didn't you watch Hook? Robin Williams is ooooold.
Didn't you watch Hook? Robin Williams is ooooold.
pentagathus
Baron
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