*Update*
PROBLEM SOLVED I think it might be companions causing it. I created new (same named char) and imported it because my old game crashed, did some ctrl-clicking around to towns to get the people i wanted, picked up 5 out of 6 of the companions and some caravan guards and merc horsemen. I went out to lvl and got 5 of the C++ errors immediately after the first battle. Had a hunch and did a new char again and just got caravan guards and merc horsemen (no companions this time) now into day 84 and no c++ errors AT ALL!. I did many of the quests that caused me problems before and the only one that caused problems was the kidnapped girl and that was only the script error message until i turned in the quest. Xing fingers that this might be the problem and an easy solution till they get the bug fixed.