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@KSHMR , I don't see how tolerating those who actively harass others into quitting the game is good for sever population. Getting rid of one guy who makes eleven people want to quit doesn't kill Bannerlord, it helps it keep living. Would you suggest we keep hackers, tk'ers and game delayers to bolster server population? I'm guessing you wouldn't, because those guys' actions impede your enjoyment. If you could recognize that horrific abuse does the same for other people, then I think the logic of banning toxics makes sense. Also, to my understanding, Riot permabans people who are consistently abusive in chat. At least they did for a time, and honestly, good on them.

For the record, I say this as someone who loves banter in chat. However, there's a difference between making fun of someone's K/D and threatening to sexually assault them. I think we can have plenty of toxicity and crap flinging without tolerating hate speech and open abuse.

The more I read your posts, the more I like you :smile:. Although I don't know that I would define the banter you are talking about as toxic. I can't really imagine any "good" kind of toxic behavior, by definition. But, semantics! And I guess this is why rules need to be written.

They use it either to act the way they wish they could irl, or to blow off steam. Hiding behind anonymity just makes them a coward

I don't know that it's even that. I see similar behavior on Facebook all the time from people who are using their actual names and profile pictures. Something about not interacting personally makes people feel like they can get away with anything I guess.

I don't think that it's necessarily that TW does not care. Things are moderated pretty well on this forum I would say, and honestly I don't really see why they can't just adapt the forum's code of conduct to have an official set of rules for MP.

I think they are just not getting around it yet, or perhaps they don't think it's worth it since this is temporary and eventually custom servers will replace what we have now.
 
I think they are just not getting around it yet, or perhaps they don't think it's worth it since this is temporary and eventually custom servers will replace what we have now.

Strangely enough, they even have pretty strickt rules for the duel servers, so I really don't know how they don't have an official one for the whole mp. Its not some difficult new feature or something, I would trust every mod on this forum to be able to write one for them, if its a matter of efford.
 
Well the rules would be simple:

1. Use common sense

Using hate speech or harassment isn't common sense, that's just being childish. I agree though, having some rules being shown would be nice. My best bet is, if you follow the forum's behaviour rules, you'll probably be fine, although some clarification on teamkillers and such would be golden.
 
To be honest, it would be better if they clarified the rules for filling topics. Information content on the forum is the best communication between the community and developers.
 
Alright, so you mentioned that Riot Games ban people for being abusive in chat. What you don't mention however, is that 100% gets a chat mute on their first, second (and even third, if im correct?) offense. Essentially, this allows them to continue playing the game without spreading their excessively toxic behaviour. I believe this is good because even the best players can become toxic in the worst of times. I am not trying to justify toxic behaviour, but if someone tells me; f*ck your mom or some stuff on a really stressfull or bad day then..I too have a bad day sometimes and I just can't deal with people trolling me so I can get toxic, and honestly most of the times I just decide to take a walk. Anyways, the point is that; why would you ban someone if you can preserve server population by just giving them a mute. All we need to effectively deal with this is a good system.
 
Alright, so you mentioned that Riot Games ban people for being abusive in chat. What you don't mention however, is that 100% gets a chat mute on their first, second (and even third, if im correct?) offense. Essentially, this allows them to continue playing the game without spreading their excessively toxic behaviour. I believe this is good because even the best players can become toxic in the worst of times. I am not trying to justify toxic behaviour, but if someone tells me; f*ck your mom or some stuff on a really stressfull or bad day then..I too have a bad day sometimes and I just can't deal with people trolling me so I can get toxic, and honestly most of the times I just decide to take a walk. Anyways, the point is that; why would you ban someone if you can preserve server population by just giving them a mute. All we need to effectively deal with this is a good system.

TW is working on a new reporting system, let's see how this will affect the overall attitude of players, before talking about any other system.
 
RiotGames is not the perfect example, just recently they gave a professional player a chat ban for really very tame chat where he called out two AFK players on his team, and also got him a 3 month ban from the League Partner Program which sees him get a lot of nice perks for being a "professional" and streamer. The 2 AFK players have yet to recieve any punishment.

I have seen people calling for a "tribunal" like system here as well, where reports are reviewed by players but with how close the community is I can see that being abused with how relationships are in the community :razz:
 
RiotGames is not the perfect example, just recently they gave a professional player a chat ban for really very tame chat where he called out two AFK players on his team, and also got him a 3 month ban from the League Partner Program which sees him get a lot of nice perks for being a "professional" and streamer. The 2 AFK players have yet to recieve any punishment.

I have seen people calling for a "tribunal" like system here as well, where reports are reviewed by players but with how close the community is I can see that being abused with how relationships are in the community :razz:

I'm not sure I would last long in a community tribunal system.... hahaha :wink: though I'm not sure being a sycophant towards TW is technically a bannable offence...

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The chat in Warband (especially on Napoleonic Wars, but I don't think it was serious at all) was "toxic" (that the term people would describe it), but it was either ignored or joined in, but I never seen anyone getting turned off by it.

A Code of Conduct should only apply to the official servers and not the community ones. However if I had the choice, I would be against the implementation of such system: you cannot police people's thoughts and the fact can these rules cannot differentate between someone who is legimitately glorifying "harmful behavior" or is just being satiric.
 
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Someone mentioned that dozens of people leave the server due to toxicity in chat.. I doubt that. I mean, just mute the player or don't look at it, I don't see the problem. Is it really that bad so you quit the game?
 
Someone mentioned that dozens of people leave the server due to toxicity in chat.. I doubt that. I mean, just mute the player or don't look at it, I don't see the problem. Is it really that bad so you quit the game?

Just because you aren't personally affected by bullying and abuse doesn't mean others aren't. Yes, people do quit this game because it's exhausting to deal with toxic behaviour. I'd suggest you broaden your perspective and consider that people react differently to being called the n-word, or hearing someone call for the extermination of black people. I think we've already seen the effects of toxicity when it comes to womens' participation in these games. Being harrassed and insulted whenever you play, simply for being a girl, has likely contributed to a clear lack of women playing. Obviously there are other factors contributing to this phenomenon, too, but we shouldn't discount how feeling unwelcome (due to toxicity) can make you quit a game.
 
I can put up with a lot of toxicity, but I'll leave a server if I see racist crap, or if a troll is just going on for too long. You should be fighting, not typing.

I don't use mute because while I'll tolerate idiots I don't want to be playing a game with racist assholes. Just like I won't stay at a party if some guy is wearing a swastika even if he's not talking to me.
 
The chat in Warband (especially on Napoleonic Wars, but I don't think it was serious at all) was "toxic" (that the term people would describe it), but it was either ignored or joined in, but I never seen anyone getting turned off by it.

Bannerlords chat is more toxic than Warbands, due to all the little kid newcomers joining. However, there was a lot of toxicity but you kinda just wen't with it, to play the game and there wasn't any chance the devs would do much about it anyways, its like with csgo. If we can prevent toxicity, we should try to do that now, before it establishes itself.

A Code of Conduct should only apply to the official servers and not the community ones. However if I had the choice, I would be against the implementation of such system: you cannot police people's thoughts and the fact can these rules cannot differentate between someone who is legimitately glorifying "harmful behavior" or is just being satiric.

How is this "policing thoughts"? There is a very clear difference between having thoughts and insulting people. So I can insult people as much as I wan't as long as I "mean it in a satiric way"?

I'd suggest you broaden your perspective and consider that people react differently to being called the n-word, or hearing someone call for the extermination of black people.

Well said. A lot of people here should try that.
 
Bannerlords chat is more toxic than Warbands, due to all the little kid newcomers joining. However, there was a lot of toxicity but you kinda just wen't with it, to play the game and there wasn't any chance the devs would do much about it anyways, its like with csgo. If we can prevent toxicity, we should try to do that now, before it establishes itself.



How is this "policing thoughts"? There is a very clear difference between having thoughts and insulting people. So I can insult people as much as I wan't as long as I "mean it in a satiric way"?



Well said. A lot of people here should try that.

Well, sometimes having thoughts means insulting people. It's completely normal human behavior to be angry and release steam using various actions: some people do it by punching their pillows hard and some do it by using less than pleasant words.

You also kind of glossed over the part where I said this should only apply to the official servers. The things I said after that part were my personal opinion, I even put the word "if" there.

I wouldn't be surprised if people got banned for just saying "you idiot" if this "feature" got implemented.

Of course, I might be just paranoid, but who knows.
 
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Well, sometimes having thoughts means insulting people. It's completely normal human behavior to be angry and release steam using various actions: some people do it by punching their pillows hard and some do it by using less than pleasant words.

Insulting people might be the reaction of thoughts, but are not thoughts themselves! Restricting those actions is not the same as restricting thoughts. It might be normal human behavior to get angry at other players, if they do something stupid, but you just have to pull yourself together and not insult them. Everyone should be able to do that.

You also kind of glossed over the part where I said this should only apply to the official servers. The things I said after that part were my personal opinion, I even put the word "if" there.

I didn't glossed it over, I didn't had to say anything about that. Yes and I am criticising and questioning your personal opinion :smile:
 
Alright, so you mentioned that Riot Games ban people for being abusive in chat. What you don't mention however, is that 100% gets a chat mute on their first, second (and even third, if im correct?) offense. Essentially, this allows them to continue playing the game without spreading their excessively toxic behaviour. I believe this is good because even the best players can become toxic in the worst of times. I am not trying to justify toxic behaviour, but if someone tells me; f*ck your mom or some stuff on a really stressfull or bad day then..I too have a bad day sometimes and I just can't deal with people trolling me so I can get toxic, and honestly most of the times I just decide to take a walk. Anyways, the point is that; why would you ban someone if you can preserve server population by just giving them a mute. All we need to effectively deal with this is a good system.
Someone saying go f*uck urself once is not an issue, I dont think anyone cares. Seing SLAUGHER ALL BLACK PEOPLE spammed 15 times in the chat is annoying and I have zero sympathy if they get banned for it. Oh no you dont get to troll a server with 100 people, poor you.

The chat in Warband (especially on Napoleonic Wars, but I don't think it was serious at all) was "toxic" (that the term people would describe it), but it was either ignored or joined in, but I never seen anyone getting turned off by it.

A Code of Conduct should only apply to the official servers and not the community ones. However if I had the choice, I would be against the implementation of such system: you cannot police people's thoughts and the fact can these rules cannot differentate between someone who is legimitately glorifying "harmful behavior" or is just being satiric.
Its not like they write a message saying why they quit the server/game, they just go. Personally I dont mind it most of the time, I find enjoyment in finding the trolls and killing them, but I know players who quit the game because of toxicity or harassment. I agree a code of conduct should only apply on official servers, I'll police my servers my way.

Bannerlords chat is more toxic than Warbands, due to all the little kid newcomers joining. However, there was a lot of toxicity but you kinda just wen't with it, to play the game and there wasn't any chance the devs would do much about it anyways, its like with csgo. If we can prevent toxicity, we should try to do that now, before it establishes itself.

How is this "policing thoughts"? There is a very clear difference between having thoughts and insulting people. So I can insult people as much as I wan't as long as I "mean it in a satiric way"?

Well said. A lot of people here should try that.
Also because people arent enjoying the combat or feel slighted by taleworld, theyre more likely to not fight and just troll instead.
Policing thoughts is no excuse.... Nobody in their right mind thinks hitler did nothing wrong, but I've banned dozens of them over the years. They do it only to provoke. And if they actually believe this nonsense, they can promote it in real life instead, see if that gets them any friends.

Well, sometimes having thoughts means insulting people. It's completely normal human behavior to be angry and release steam using various actions: some people do it by punching their pillows hard and some do it by using less than pleasant words.

You also kind of glossed over the part where I said this should only apply to the official servers. The things I said after that part were my personal opinion, I even put the word "if" there.

I wouldn't be surprised if people got banned for just saying "you idiot" if this "feature" got implemented.

Of course, I might be just paranoid, but who knows.
And you should be allowed to have your thoughts and opinions, even discuss them, if its done in good faith. If your thoughts are all blacks should die, I'm sure there are places you can argue your dumbass ideas, but a video game server isnt that.
If I stood up in church saying You know what, heres what the problem with communism is, and walk up to the altar. I'd be thrown out (or gently escorted out I guess.) Theres a time and place. We're on the server to play and enjoy ourselves, I dont give a **** about your politics
The "where does it all end?!" argument ugh....It ends somewhere. We use a syringe when giving out vaccines, syringes are also used to inject heroin, oh no ban all syringes!
No....It ends where its logical for it to end. Me saying that was a stupid move to my teammate isnt the same as him saying burn the jews, so stop pretending anyone would think so. If someone is banned for calling someone an idiot I'll be the first one to riot about it, but it wont happen.

NOTE: I dont mean YOU when I say you.
 
All I want is a mute all feature like in NW. Jesus the casual servers are always filled with idiots... warband didn’t have it and bannerlord didn’t have it, and it will be sorely missed as a feature
 
I just witnessed a guy ranting about how America should commit genocide against black people.
Why is it always these guys? You never see Nepalese Sherpas coming in here to complain about the Indians or the Eskimos about The Icelandic..Is there a deep love of Warband in the Klan?
 
Why is it always these guys? You never see Nepalese Sherpas coming in here to complain about the Indians or the Eskimos about The Icelandic..Is there a deep love of Warband in the Klan?

There probably aren't that many nepalese Sherpas or Eskimos with an internet connection..
 
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