When getting married, there's no way to select a spouse for the engagement.
Either;
A) The game should determine that the hand being offered is like 21~ therefore the nearest age-appropriate choice should be put forward
or
B) The barter screen should open up, and you should be able to pick and choose which of their clan can be selected for marriage.
In my current save, I'm trying to find a bride for my son. He's 21.
There's a good match at 20 with great traits and stats... but her older sister (51 years old) is the one being offered.
She's infertile, and has poor stats. Why would I wed my 21 year old son for their 51 year old un-married daughter?
Either;
A) The game should determine that the hand being offered is like 21~ therefore the nearest age-appropriate choice should be put forward
or
B) The barter screen should open up, and you should be able to pick and choose which of their clan can be selected for marriage.
In my current save, I'm trying to find a bride for my son. He's 21.
There's a good match at 20 with great traits and stats... but her older sister (51 years old) is the one being offered.
She's infertile, and has poor stats. Why would I wed my 21 year old son for their 51 year old un-married daughter?