+1now, take a look at this, i took the age difference between our sister and brother to see how a character would develop without me taking control.
that how she was looking before
after 2 years of waging wars as part of the army
now, no charm. no leadership. steward is very low after two years. except for medicine. medicine levels much quicker.
if i would used her as a governor situation would've been much, much worse.
so this is my biggest gripe as it now, the natural development of characters is very bad. if MC would die in battle or of old age, i would have to do a lot of grinding all over again.
I mentioned this issue somewhere long time ago. The progression of skills is too slow. In "normal" play mode you basically cannot get higher skills.
I personally think this issue is partly caused by some players which are "hacking" the progression system with some wicked activities to level up quickly. If the "natural" progression would be increased they would most likely complain they can get 300 skills for everything too easily.