Bannerlords Roleplaying was Dissapointing

[King Harlaus The Fat]

Unless you expect TW to be able to develop an entire additional game (CK3) inside of BL, not to mention turning BL into just CK3 in the process, that's just how it is. The game's about pitched combat, it's gotta have pitched combat frequently.

I would suggest going back and replaying Warband. Your time is pretty evenly split between talking to lords, doing stuff for them to try to get them to like you, and fighting battles. In banner lord, that's absolutely not the case

 

[Apocal]

Having to fight 6261726482 battles per in game year is what mostly ruins RP for me. War pace and aging pace are not synced at all.

Indeed, this is a big problem.

I would suggest going back and replaying Warband. Your time is pretty evenly split between talking to lords, doing stuff for them to try to get them to like you, and fighting battles. In banner lord, that's absolutely not the case

I still play Warband semi-regularly and this is definitely not the case towards late/end-game.