Unfortunately, the devs are in a no-win situation. If they release a lot of patches in quick succession (like they had to just after release to fix all the game breaker bugs) people complain because the MP servers they want to play on aren't on the same patch, or that their favourite mod isn't being updated until the patch releases settle down, or just that they have to keep patching all the time. If they wait a while to release, people complain that the devs don't care, or that
their bug should be fixed asap.