Sorry for bumping such an old thread but this is totally relevant to what is happening to me.
I'm a vassal in a kingdom with a big army (+130) and I would like to have an allied vassal (+200 men) from my faction help me with a siege. I have a great relation with the vassal (69) and he always accept everything I ask.
But when I choose the option "there is a forteress that can be easily taken, go to:", the vassal answers "where" and my character always automatically says "Never mind". I can't even choose a fortress/town.
Does anyone already had that problem ?
I'm also having a lot of trouble getting vassals to help me attack enemies "on the road". It is easy to join a battle that is already hapenning, but you can't have someone backing you up when you decide to enter a new battle, even if that vassal is following you with his army.
For example, with that same vassal, there is an enemy king with 240 men close to us. But I cant tell the vassal to attack him, I always have to go alone and be numerically inferior. The enemy king faction and my faction are "hateful".
If there is no solution, maybe some mods add those features to native ?
Thanks for the help
(playing on warband v1.154)