Sure I happily would. Glad to have found reason and common ground.Thank you very much for your answer, that means that we are mostly on the same page which I enjoy seeing.
To answer your question: I don't consider every person using the kickpoll a bad human being, because there are circumstances when a kickpoll is justified. I don't see kickpolls justified when new players are kicked because of their lack of skill. And I think that the people doing this are not empathic and cannot relate to new players.
I hope that helps you understand me more and if you wish to continue this discussion, I'd invite you to our discord to have a nice discussion, be sure to bring a beer or two!
I will say as much tho, when it comes down to personality It is more likely that less empathetic people would votekick new players. I myself favour my enjoyment and my friends more over a random persons and I am confident many other people do so too. Sometimes it is a fault of the system and getting a quick fix would be welcomed by all.