Got a quest called "Himil's Revolt" which involved stopping a party on the campaign map which would gather more support as time went by, filling up a bar from 1-20. I engaged with it at level 2, with about seventy tier 3-6 Khuzait troops, and got completely smacked down by about 50 horse archers, failing the quest. What's worse, my wife got captured and is listed as a prisoner in the clan menu, last seen at Chaikand. She isn't at Chaikand, dungeon or keep, talking to the original lord doesn't yeild anything, and Monchug's barter menu doesn't give me the option to release her. So yeah, if anyone has a fix that would be great, going to make my own thread on this, but it's an ironman run so I can't just savescum it. TLDR its a really dumb quest.
