I am sorry NA friends that they don't listen to you. I would be happy to rek some NA people. You really got some salt in you. It is like breaking a pinata filled with salt when killing a player from NA (no pun intended).
Just making 2H swing from horseback slower would make some difference. I agree 2H cav are easy kills for archers or anyone who can counter cavalry. Bruh, that avatar, what are you doing to that dog?
I think it is my lance. It happens sometimes when you use it couched. Attack goes deep into their soul. Same problem was in Warband too. Not sure if they ever fixed it. Maybe captains should lose command if they go too far from their unit. I think that would fix rambo style.