Basically, at this point, the excessive negativity without any kind of fair consideration or realistic mindset, that some people are showing, is on the level of a teenage boy and his first sex. The boy just fantasizes about sex, gets his expectations and dopamine glands zonked out by watching too much hentai and porn, and by the time he actually has his first sex, gets disappointed that his orgasm isn't like the world-shattering pleasure porn promised, nor the partner's reactions the raving ahegao he always saw in hentai -- and then, subsequently starts blaming the partner for his disappointment, and could not deliver.
It's becoming PATHETIC. The forum's pretty much infested with the worst of twitter mindset.