I have done the persuasion attempts on Liena of Vlandia, she told me I have to talk to her clan leader to "make the arrangements". I do this, it opens a barter screen where my side already has "marriage to Liena", but nothing I do on that screen has any affect on the acceptance meter or the offer button. What do I do? I have somewhere around 6000 gold, I'm a mercenary right now with a tier 1 clan.