Well unless things change, i don't think they will, dedicated server files will be shared.
The problem with yours was that it was getting a publicity of being "a better mp" and there are many people working on server side. They are obviously upset that you kind of steal all the credit. I mean issues are mostly design issues, there are many other people. Devs, artists etc. that did their job well but all gone to kind of waste due to those community server people advertising their changes as "better mp".
Honestly, if I had the power, I would support those feedback but I also understand why people get upset because of the community server.