Hi all!
Took much longer to reply to this than I had hoped. That's the result of moving house
and it being the week before E3.
It would be a little ridiculous to reply to individual quotes here after so many pages, so I'll just try and reply to cover what I think are the key points, and offer some more clarification.
My role
It's understandable that a lot of people here are surprised to see me interact with forum moderation at all. The reality is that I am very involved with the moderation team and am typically called upon to set guidelines and establish precedents where they are missing.
I'm pleased that most consider the forum moderation team to be doing a fine job on the whole and I'm very much in agreement!
While I'm not looking for credit, I do sometimes forget to do my own PR and it's only my fault that my role is called into question because I don't often do a good enough job of showing what I do! Somebody dug up a post I made a long time ago that explains a lot of what I do, although I occupy a very broad role in the company which often changes depending on our focus or requirements at any given time. I'll keep thinking about a good remedy for the information deficiency there.
In the meantime, I think we're moving in the right direction as a company and I'm very happy that
Callum has joined us to help fill in where I can't always!
Talking nice / PR talk
I'm a little confused at why people are bothered by me being nice or polite. If it seems disingenuous, or too cut-and-paste, then I'm sorry.
However, I don't know most of the people posting here personally and I genuinely don't take personal offence at this type of talk or behaviour. Whether you like it or not, I will be nice and polite because the alternative is not likely to help anyone and certainly won't make the forums a better place.
What I can understand is people feeling as though the niceness is intended to disguise some kind of horrible action. A lot of people have accused me of making threats but honestly, it's a little ridiculous when this "threat" is just me informing people that breaking the forum rules has consequences. It's a very basic fact of the forums and something that should be well known by veterans of the community! As long as the information is clear (and I hope it has been but I am happy to continue offering clarification) then I don't see any reason to communicate it unpleasantly.
Forum standards / conduct
Some people have already pointed out that I have left plenty of criticism of myself in this thread.
At this point, I'd also like to thank everyone for contributing. Even if I don't agree with everything said and despite a lot of it being negative feedback directed at me, I'm glad that the manner in which it was written has been of a decent standard.
This
does lead me to believe that everyone pretty much knows how to post on the forums. The post that was removed was, in my view, significantly worse than anything else in the last 5 pages and doesn't have a place on this forums. And not just for posts directed at me, but anyone - and by the same token I'm not willing to put up with bile publicly, just because of my position. That's not a part of my job and I want to make it absolutely clear that it should not be considered standard or acceptable behaviour. Again: not directed at me, not directed at anyone.
On top of that, the user was actively disregarding direct instructions to change their avatar. When any member of the forum team gives a clear instruction, it must be followed. Questions can always be asked later and that's why we have this thread, PMs, an official email etc.
Avatars
In relation to the avatars, we have this rule:
Avatars and signatures
No deliberately offensive signatures or profile pictures are allowed. This includes, but is not limited to, pictures of members of the Nazi party, symbols of racist groups or nudity. Signatures must abide by the size rules specified on the 'Forum Profile' page of your account — that is, they should be no larger than 200 pixels high, including all images and text. Moderators and Administrators may choose, without due warning, to alter your account as they see fit and further actions may be taken depending on the content.
Both avatars and signatures must adhere to a "safe for work" minimum standard, which means sexualised/provocative or inflammatory images are forbidden. Remember; your avatar and signature are the first and last things anybody sees of your posts, and images or slogans which marginalise any group of people are not conducive to a welcoming environment.
I've highlighted, in bold, the part which is particularly relevant. Plants shaped as genitals is not an acceptable image for people to find when they come to visit this forum. There are, of course, plenty of other things on the forum I'd rather people not see when visiting - the last few pages of this thread included!
However, that is why we have our rules and set what I consider to be reasonable limits. The nature of avatars, as stated by the rule, means they are particularly high visibility and subject to higher standards. I consider the images used to be sexualised/provocative. It's obviously ridiculous to descend to the point where our moderation staff is forced to determine what plant looks like what part of the human anatomy and make a judgement of that level. If issues of this sort prove to be a massive waste of moderator time, I will support the moderation team in finding a more efficient ways to deal with them.
Sex thread
I thought the rule was pretty clear in itself when I posted it but I'm happy to provide some extra explanation.
No porn, links to porn sites or anything similar
The members of this board range from pre-teens to retirees. We don't want to offend or corrupt anyone. Again, breaking this rule can lead to a permanent ban without warning.
The relevant part is in the body of the rule, rather than the header. I've highlighted it for clarity.
What I often use as a benchmark is what I consider the reaction of a parent would be to their 12 year old child being exposed to any given thread / image / post on the forum. The sex thread fell well short of that.
You might argue there are other parts of the forum that would fall short of that benchmark as well. You may well be right and that's a situation I hope to improve upon in future.