I'm running into a similar issue. I've been doing everything my king asks, and all of a sudden I'm -35 with him. Wish there was a relation log to see what triggers changes.
Things were going great, then I was voted a castle and all of a sudden I'm at -35 relations with my lord. Anyone have any insight?
I really wish there was a log that showed you the event that influences the relation between characters.
My game is in a state where if I go to the encyclopedia and look for Wanderers with the name 'Healer' they all have no skills listed. If you recruit them they do not give any bonuses to healing so it looks like this isn't just a bug in displaying the skills in the UI.