I'm sorry, I thought I talk to James_Lindsay, not Donald Trump.
It doesn't matter what kind of server we're talking about. When you were bad, ppl let you play, the mods on the private server did that, everyone on IG_Battlegrounds did that (should be proof enough that I played Warband, I started in 2010 btw) and everyone was fine with that. For me it was absolutely inspiring to see all those good players massively wrecking me on IG all the time and you could get in touch with them and got better. Now people actively prevent this from happening by kicking players.
Now we have people that have the audacity to kick new players in a public lobby because they are not as good as them. How dare they, just because in their tiny mind, they feel proud that they are under the top 50 in a 250 men multiplayer game, think that they have the right to do it?
Just so you don't think I have something against you which I don't have: Your two solutions (ranked and casual lobbies aswell as Custom Servers) are very very important to save this Multiplayer from the absolute desaster currently displayed and noone that did touch Warband beforehand will disagree. But I will not defend people kicking people out of lobbies because they need to save their ego that otherwise would be broken if they loose a match in a casual(!) skirmish round.
I would quote Gibby's post because it sums it up perfectly, but instead I will just say: Thank you
@Gibby Jr for the nice words you've told me years ago, it made me very proud back in the day and I still remember it!