yes, all that. the point is that relations and charm are not working as intended. at least i hope that is the case. I do appreciate your response.
ok, so Bill and Carl are are the two runners up for for a nice new house and I get to vote on it. I really like carl so I am going to choose him for the house because i want to increase my relationship with this person. I vote for him and he even gets the house. but what? wait now.. Carl is now mad at me for voting for him? damn you Carl.