When spending 200 influence to move someones fief ownership, in a kingdom, there should be an option to vote for yourself to take the fief,
otherwise there is no point in doing so and you just lose the influence and additional relationship status.
+1
Also please make it so you can get trade xp from good which you got from raids (or at least for how much you sold them above the areas/average market price)
I also think caravans should give you some amount of xp.