First let me thank you for bothering to take the time to answer. I appreciate that and next time your on a board that I know something about I'll be sure to help out.
In the mean time I have Python, the most recent module, found the part needed to be modified, however, I am having trouble exporting just that one bit of code into the module that has my saved game, I mean it works it just deletes all my saves. So how would I modify that for my current module I'm playing in without destroying my character?
EDIT: So I got it to work, however, it seems that all that did was make it so when I joined as a lord my relation with my new nation dropped to -40. I'm gonna try and see what went wrong.
EDIT2: I still don't know what went wrong, but did figure out that I can just change that 12 to whatever I currently have and that way there is no loss. Thank you very much for your efforts.