Valkirah 说:
Also if you want to marry, which raises right to rule and makes sense from an RP standpoint, you need to vassal with another King.
I like to roleplay my char so I usually vassal with a King, get a wife, and then begin taking castles/cities until I get refused... at which point I renounce and keep all of my holdings (and associated villages). I also begin to recruit the lords I made friends with.
Just don't execute the king... that's a mistake I won't make again!
Yeah the marrige is more improtent then... anything...
I started my kingdomm. Got two castle and a city pretty fast from the same nation that allready didn´t like me. but after one week I was in 5 wars. after 2 weeks 10 wars. now i think it is 12. No one wanna make peace because you don´t have a claim on the throne of brittania. Youre not married.
For instence there is one nation there every lord have around +50 relationship with me after varios events, but they declare war anyway and are right now seigeing my town with 2000 troops... yeah thats right 2000!!
Are probebly forced to start over

Perhaps there should say somewhere that you can´t/shouldn´t form youre own nation without a wife.