Zephilinox 说:
I just always go for max vassal relations in my domestic policy, not worried about money from rents.
Out of curiosity, how do you which lords are honorable? Is there a list somewhere?
When you defeat and release lords your honour increase very fast.
So, If you have high honour rating you can speak with lords traveling on the map. If some of them have high relation with you without reason it means they are honorable
When you speak with them at least once they will appear in the list called something like "known lords by relations" or "your friends". The list from camp menu If Im not mistaken
Probably they are called good natured...also their relatives can tell you what nature a lord has.
relations with honorable lords only depends on your honour rating... some kind of formula.
It is approximately. When you have 300 honour. your relations with all lords of this kind are 40 for example... when your honour growths, your relations growth too... up to 100. They are happy without fiefs and without "possitive" domestic policy
Honorable lords never leave their factions, so you will never find them in your castle awating for approval. You can only hunt for them

Some honorable lords can't be persuaded to change faction even with 100 relations...it depends how happy they are with their current king.
I didn't push myself to hire all good lords. but I was able to hire 10-15 lords with 100 relations while fighting with other factions... and 20 lords queued in my castle which i didn't approve and didn't dismiss..
I'm not sure but probably their is should be the opposite kind of lords. Bad guys. The less honour you have (below zero?) the higher your relations with them.