Be sure she’s not captured when you talk with Godun. Otherwise you can’t offer him marrying her, option will be invisible. Be the hero and rescue her if she is captured, then go to her father.
Thank you very much for the response
I do not think she is captured at the time when I speak to her father,
However I will double check to be sure....
I currently think there may be a bug where if he is captured when I propose, he ignores it
I am hesitant of reloading a past save and waiting for him to respawn before the 2nd marriage check in case she does go off and get captured though..