I used the family affiliation option and ran into a problem.
After I got married to Lady Zandina, the affiliate dialog option disappeared from my wife's father menu (Emir Nuam). I could image it is because of this line in
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Relationships, pictures taken after the story
Emir Tyler, my hero
Lady Zandina, my wife
Emir Uqais, the target lord
So I went to a different lord (Emir Uqais) and successfully went through the dialog of getting affiliated to his family. I believe that was possible because I was not in his relatives list. However, I already had a family of my wife, her farther (Emir Nuam, my father-in-law), and her brother (Emir Dhashwal, my brother-in-law). Furthermore, all three of them were relatives of the target lord (Emir Uqais).
After going through the affiliation dialog, I instantly got I believe a +10 relationship bonus with all the family (or friends) of Emir Uqais, and -10 with his enemy Sultan Hakim (I also had a settle dispute quest with the two of them). However, nothing changed in my family view after that: I still had the same three people on my list. To make matters worse, every 48 hours I was getting a relationship PENALTY with all of Emir Uqais' family including my own wife. As I am playing with a "realistic" save policy, I rushed to Emir Uqais and called off my affiliation. This is where I got the 15 controversy points seen on the screenshot.
The problem seems to lie within the fact that my hero was already affiliated with the people that the game tried to affiliate him with.