I pretty sure you already know these Apocal. I just copy paste these to make a point.
How to gain honor;
Decline reward for defeating bandits after
training peasants+1
Defeat bandits at village during infestation+1
Accept reward after dueling for a lady+1
Accepting blame during intrigue against a lord quest+1
Allow prisoner lord to go free after battle+2
Release an imprisoned lord from another's castle or town+2
Refuse reward after dueling for a lady+2
Rejecting quest to incriminate a lord+2
Allow defeated lord to go free after battle+3
Failing to incriminate a lord+3
Refusing to sacrifice to incriminate a lord+3
Refuse reward for killing a fugitive+3
Refuse reward after persuading lords to make peace+3
Select noble background during
Character creation+3