I agree with you , when I played mount and blade warband I didn't want another total war ,I wanted to role play a knight in the midieval ages ,those activities they removed such as wedding and feasts and courtships were immersive , I feel the devs are making a mistake by trying to make this game more like "mount and blade Total War", all I wanted in Bannerlord 6 years ago is more advanced Sieges more quests and bigger cities better diplomacy but the devs are stuffing the game with complicated **** they even struggle to make it work ,while they could have made It simpler and more fun.