working on a broken relationship is like working on a broken toaster, it's far easier to get it replaced. I think the term "working it out" generally means "looking for someone better to ****" But don't take my word for it, ask T-wolf, he's the king of "working it out" and then finding himself under a much younger and more attractive female Every relationship pretty much hangs on the quality of alternatives interested in you.
To be fair, the working it out thing is the exact reason I've ended up with my girlfriend. Also, she was a ****ing ***** that was playing with me then threatened to kill Lydia. It's more like working on a car that's been in an accident. If there's cosmetic damage or even slight engine damage it is worth fixing. If the frame is bent, the doors torn off, and you had to have your buddies from the fire company cut you out, then it would be better to take it back in the woods and have a good old bonfire.
Yeah, if my woman died I'd probably go ahead with my earlier life plan of : get hands on firearm > go to area of extreme oppresion (such as Libya, Somalia, or maybe one those ****ed up Nazi-run towns in Germany) > go down in a blaze of fire. Or just become a career Army man, since it's easier and requires less cajones.
It's great to have someone to love you and help you when you are going through tough times/situations. You truly have found a gem. If I were you I would be very grateful.
Believe me, I'm more than grateful, and I tell her all the time.
mor2 说:
meds will help with depression, mood labilty, impulsive behavior, anger, anxiety etc, but eventually in here they account for chemical imbalances, not for possible underlying causes. so, people who think that drinking meds will magically fix everything dont understand personality disorders.
Exactly what it is. What my psychiatrist told me was that they can take the edge off of things so that I can, in turn, cope with and fix the root of the issues. Medication is also really dangerous though, like what happened with Dodes. It can aggravate the problems instead of helping.
It seems that anxiety and having depression run in the same vein.
I suffered from depression for 3 or 4 years. It was a mix of school and social anxiety. I had to basically drop out of school, I stopped seeing my family, hell I even didn't have the drive to get up from bed and shower for weeks at a time. I went out of the house only when I absolutely had to. A couple times I was even about to commit suicide but my parents stopped me. Was the worst time of my life and I'll probably never be fully "normal" again because of it. I still get small bouts of it but my girlfriend is very understanding about it and does everything she can to pull me out of it which I couldn't do without her help. The anxiety though is still an almost daily fight.
I'm sorry you're going through this Dodes, it's absolutely terrible. It's a shame people aren't more understanding about depression and what it does. I have run into countless people that say "Well why don't you just go instead of thinking about it" when talking about not being able to go somewhere or do something. I hope you'll be able to pull out of it soon. Once it eventually goes away you'll look back and see how much it's helped you grow though. You will also feel much more comfortable with just being yourself and not caring what others think of you as much.
I drive it cause I have to tow horse trailers and I can't really tow it with a bike. I don't have the money to buy a car, I would if I did. I'm saving up for the bike Jace has, a Honda Shadow.
I have a 2003 F250. This one isn't mine, I don't have an pictures of it. Mine's pretty much the same just dark gray instead. I just wish it was a 7.3 Turbo Diesel instead of gas.
The one issue I've always seen with outlawing abortion is what if there's, say, a 13 year old girl who either gets raped or has sex consensually but ends up getting pregnant. Now she finds out that if she gives birth she's almost certain to not live through it. You're killing one mature life for the sake of a fetus. For the rape she probably wouldn't want it but I'll leave that to Pav to expand on.