got the ghost lady quest,talked to 3 of the people,but lady Irena is invisible -_-.on the quest screen,her name is not blue like the others so no link O_O yet she is a lady.i ask where she is,i go there....nothing.and I'm positive she has space to spawn in that city because i rested there a while until more lords showed,and there were more people in the castle(which means it had enough space for her when i checked). i have checked that town(and 2 more where there were feasts) and nothing :/anyone have any clue how to fix this?
extra details in case it helps:
i have all fierdsvain lands,most d'shar lands(empire has the rest,including iskhoman),1/4 or ravenstern(including ravenstern itself) and almost all of sarleons(excluding 1 or 2 castles held by empire...yea they took advantage of my steamrolling.)
the lady I'm supposed to speak to is in empire,yet the lord who's "wife" died is in my faction.it also says nothing about them being married :/
lastly,i used the console command
and then clicked on the get stats thing(forgot the actual name).And even THAT tells me the lady is in the city,yet i go there and she no where :/ i really just want to finish.doesn't matter if the reward is a roll of cheese,the real reward is the feeling of accomplishment anyways ^^.
help please? :'(