Yup i hold on to 4 cities, 3 castles and a village... still cant find any conversation or any link to moving my Lady... quite annoying because i d like to talk to her more often ( Feasts and quests ) but she is in Suno and i am 95% of the time south-southeast from dhirim and i visit only Dhirim, dont have time to travel to Suno, as i am in 3 frontal war, so i need to defend my holdings
Also to clarify one more thing, i am still a Vassal of Kingdom of Nords.... not going on my own yet