It's probably not helpful to post I don't know.. just a heads up
How to recruit a lord

, well one heres how i go about recruiting lords always have 70-80 relation that should work as a booster when you ask them "i wish to discuss something in private" if they accept say how do you feel about King " name here" and if they say Long live ! don't even ask again.. they're too loyal and if they don't then continue asking to persuade them to say more after that they will say something like "Justice or uphold values " thats a hint in which you claim to your throne for example Lord XXX said I don't feel that my rights have been upholded or something like that then reply with
"If I were king then I would uphold your rights to land and customs" and then you would probably determine to join you on if you have more to offer then their current kingdom but anyhow before doing that you need to determine something go to Notes then go to factions and click on the faction you want a lord and look at the bottom of the summary if it says 100% lords are restless, or 100% disgruntled then your chances of recruiting the lords are better for starts you need to make sure they hate thier kingdom ways to do that is to start completely raping the kingdoms until they have very little fiefs left.. or do things to make the lords angry at their realm..
that should be thebasis for it good luck
