Thank you for responding!! I checked the keep, the tavern, and the dungeon and had been all over the map and it said she was holding at Ocs hall the whole time without moving. I have no idea how to get around this, especially since my brother is also waiting at ChaikandAssuming you checked clan menu to make sure where she is exactly, took a look at both tavern and keep, the best you can do, if you own a settlement, is to assign her governor there. She'd appear in the keep after you re-enter the town. Also sometimes members in clan menu appear as holding instead of waiting, which means they're in limbo, so it's best to give them a few days to appear somewhere, waiting.