I'd like to add to this the option to choose the specific spouse for myself and clan members from a list not just from random offers or hunting them down just to hope you succeed your charm checks just to pay a smaller Dowry. This also would help with proper marriages instead of forcing one of my younger kin into a childless marriage. Also please add Heir looms had a wife die in birth just to lose 500k+gear and mount for 0 reason if they died in battle and you lose ok i can understand the lose but if you win it can come back as battered worn broken with a Heirloom suffix attached for their kids or somethin also please add armors to smith and maybe leather work / Tailor
