Good tips. I assume you get exp. in tourney combat as well, no?
So here's my plan for now. Trade/Quest/Compete until I get comfortable and have a 50 man army and at least 2 more companions (3 total), while building rep wherever I can. (I just became a Vaegir merc, so my favor with Nords just went down the pooper. Didn't expect that

) Once I get there, I'll find the Khergit claimant and join his cause. Those people apparantly didn't like me from the start for some reason, so they go first. I'm sure they'll end up at war with the Rhodoks, and once that happens it's time to go get my little piece of lakeside property. (Don't remember it's name, but it's the one nestled between a lake to the South and hill to the North, just West of what I think is the capital; Jelkala, right?) Not sure what to do after that, but figure it's a pretty nice start. I suppose I don't have to go the claimant route, since it appears I'm becoming an Vaegir tool and they're at war with the Khergit. I guess there are more questions there:
What happens if I join a cliamant while in service to the king of a warring faction?
Do native troops go away if their lands are conquered by another faction and stay if by a claimant?
Now that the Nords and Khergit hate me, is it safe to travel there or will I get crushed by the nobles 100+ man armies? If it is safe, will my trade be affected there?
When it comes time to seige, will I need to re-construct my forces? Right now I'm at about 50% cavalry, 15% archers and 35% infantry, and I'm sure most if not all of those infantry will upgrade to cavalry, since my cavalry came from those same infantry types. (I know I can have the cavalry dismount, but I have yet to delve into the combat commands. Guess I should, huh?) I have yet to see an upgrade tree; does one exist? I've seen all over the place here where to get what type of troops; it'd be great to see it in a graphic representation since I don't really have a grasp on geography yet.
One more thing. I am getting hardly any XP now that I have a force that apparently threatens every type of raider/looter/etc in the kingdom, but know there's no way I could take on a real military force. Last time I was near the coast I saw no sea raiders at all, but according to the hierarchy of bandits, they may be my last hope at a reasonable challenge. Everyone else gets wasted by my troops before I get any real action, and that only after a considerable chase since they all run. How can I get combat XP in this situation? Tournaments seem so few and far between that they won't do the trick. Should I disband some of my troops until I need to build my forces for seige?
OK,
one more "one more thing". I purchased some cattle and drove them to a city. How do I sell them? (Really need to use that "cattle will follow" mod...)