oh crap, I thought I had a save but it was saved after I tinkered around with `Marry Anyone` mod. I no longer have the save right before the tinkering
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Interesting thing is that when I installed the mod, the dialogue for marrying Cidre and her sister both popped up when I asked Cidre for approval again. And when I clicked on either of the option I was presented with marrying both Cidre and her sister ( the polygamy option for Marry Anyone mod isn't even ticked ). After I finished the transaction of dowry, I was then married to Cidre. A few moments later I somehow left my own kingdom.