Wtf the government, let alone an intelligence agency is not your husband or couples therapist. Should the CIA really be the career opportunity for people who need to feel understood and validated and supported in dealing with their emotional issues...sounds like she should have been an actress, amirite ba dum tish.
What's next? Ar you clumsy, neurotic, unfocused and impulsive? Come be a brain surgeon! It's only people's lives, a small price to pay for making you feel good.