yeah its a war game lol ah u destoyed my village and ruined my faction and killed many of my man dont worry were cool i will imprison u then u escape easy or let ur family pay a small small fee of 1k tho killing u will make my own people whom ur killing angryYes, it's really stupid and was better when there was no relations penalty.
You should only lose relations with the clan of the person you killed, and their personal friends. No one else would really care all that much. Even within their own faction, they have enemies who benefit from their demise.